Singing in the Shower: Pros and Cons

Content Warning: Talk of bathrooms and showers. Obviously. 😜

Singing in the shower is something a lot of people do. Theater was the first time I heard it actually mentioned, but I’ve always had a habit of doing it myself. In the theater situation, our director told us to sing loudly, like we did in the shower.

And let me tell you, that’s pretty accurate.

What makes us do it? For me, it’s the result of the (usually wrong) impression that no one can hear me.

That’s sooo not true; it seems that at all the times you think no one can hear you, they hear you the loudest and clearest, especially with the echo effect that I’ve found in most bathrooms.

But that doesn’t stop me. 

Before I get too off track, let me move on to the topic of this post . . .

First off, the cons of singing in the shower.

  1. Ummm, everyone can hear you.

Besides that, depending on how well you sing, it might cause pain to said listening ears.

But really, I’m a big advocate of singing in the shower. Let me tell you why.

My first reason is because of the good acoustics. It sounds amazing, at least to the person doing the singing. 

Second, it gives me an opportunity to actually sing. Usually when I sing, I hold back. But I feel like I can actually let go when I’m alone (or not so alone, as the case may be). 

This caused a rather embarrassing moment several years ago when we had company over while I was still showering. I hadn’t known anyone was coming over, so I was belting out my favorite hymn at the top of my lungs.

Until my sister started pounding on the door for me to be quiet. When I came out, I found one of the oldest and most respected members of our church talking to my parents in the living room.

Ooops.

Anyway, as I said—there are some less exciting parts to this whole singing business.

But my favorite part of singing in the shower is the songs I sing. I mostly sing old hymns and snippets of other favorites that I don’t remember all of.

And I sing them over and over.

I don’t think God minds the singing. He says in Psalms to make a joyful noise unto Him, and that’s what I do! It doesn’t matter if it’s perfectly pitched to Him; He understands the motive behind it.

Some of my favorite shower-songs are “Leaning on the Everlasting Arms,” “Angels We Have Heard on High,” “Come Thou Fount,” and “It Is Well with My Soul.

Also, “Wellerman’s Sea Shanty,” in another genre.

It’s fun. It’s freeing. And it gives me true joy. I stand there singing my heart out to a God I know will always hear me.

And when I come out after my shower, usually no one comments on the singing anyway.

Usually.

And there you have it! I encourage you to go brush up your singing voice—and don’t be afraid to do it! And if your family (or roommates, as it might be) doesn’t like your singing, just take a shower when they’re not at home.

And on the topic of singing, you don’t have to stick to just in the shower. I sing while I’m painting, at work, doing chores around the house . . . usually when no one else is around, but that’s all the better. When I don’t have people listening, I don’t have to worry about what it sounds like. Only God hears me.

Until next week, God bless!

~Janet

PS: What’s your favorite song or hymn?

Review of January + Goals

Ok guys, I’m back with a review and update, as well as my coming goals!

This month was pretty great overall, but I will go through the categories to break things down for ya’ll!

In Writing

This month I was able to finish my WIP, Keegan’s Flight, at around 20,000 words! I also blogged consistently, which is a goal for this year. 😀

However, one of my other goals was to reach 40 subscribers this month.

I did not reach that goal.

🙁

I will be setting up an email subscriber list this month though, so hopefully that will make it easier for all you wonderful people to follow me (if you want to :D)! I will also be adding a special gift for you once you do subscribe!

Goals for February: Finish The Parrot’s Blessing and start The Author Conservatory. And the email list of course! 😀

In Art

I got several art commissions this month and am working on them right now. I’m almost done with The Last Supper (see here) as well as a set for some neighbors! Also, my brother is writing a children’s book, so I’ll be illustrating that! I’m super excited.

I also made a HUGE breakthrough in my creative space (i.e., my desk area), and now it’s organized and working well! My desk area has been out of control for a while, and organizing it has brought huge relief to me. I also added some good supplies to my collection to make my writing and art easier.

Some new skills I gained (beside painting people, lol!) were painting raindrops and making stickers with ZERO cost to myself. That was fun and super easy. 😀

Goals for February: Finish my art commissions, re-do an old artwork to share with you guys, and do a gift painting for a friend. Also learn more about pastels and do some marker artwork!

In Christianity

This month was a little strange for me. I’ve been dealing with some small problems in my own routine and life, but I’ve been making more time for Jesus and reading the Bible! I won’t go into details right now, though. 😀

Goals for February: Read my Bible every morning and pray, as well as talk about Jesus more to my friends and family. Memorize more verses!

In General Life

Nothing big happened this month, but I’ve been doing pretty well all told! I got out my camera again after a while, so be looking out for some pictures in future! I also did a bit of baking (one of my side hobbies), and that was really fun!

My family and I have been spending more time together and growing our relationships. That has been a huge blessing! Also getting to see some friends for the first time in a while was great!

Goals for February: I want to re-organize my schedule and get back on track, as well as hang out with my siblings more. I will be making an effort to grow in friendships, and making new friends!

And that’s about it! Thank you guys for reading and God bless!

Janet

Church on Christmas?

Christmas.

It’s a well-known holiday, and one my family has celebrated for many years.

I’m not going to get into why you should or shouldn’t celebrate Christmas today, but I would like to take a quick look at one thing I noticed in particular this year, as Christmas fell on a Sunday.

What’s one thing that usually happens on a Sunday?

Well, for a lot of Christains, Catholics, Lutherans, etc., you go to church (it goes by several names, but you get the idea). However, this year it was shown that 16% of just Evangelical Christain churches were closed yesterday.

That may seem small, and yes, it is. But it’s 16% percent too many.

Let me show you why.

Why do you go to church? For Christains, it’s usually to learn about Jesus, and show him the importance he holds in your life. At least, that should be why you go to church.

For the sake of the point I want to make, let’s just assume that is the reason.

Now, techinally, (unless something happens like getting sick) there should be absolutely no reason to skip church. If you just ‘don’t feel like it,’ how does God feel? You’re skipping time with other church family, and ignoring God’s authority.

How would it be if Jesus ‘didn’t feel like it’ when it came to the cross?

You get the idea.

If Jesus is the true Lord of your life, and you really want to follow him and love him, then you will always feel like going to church (if it’s a good church that actually teaches about Jesus. Let’s just assume that it is, for the sake of my argument ;P).

So then, why are churches closed on Sunday for Christmas? It’s not a business, where you get the day off! You don’t get the day off from following God… right?

Some may say they skipped church so they don’t offend family. Although this makes sense on the surface… if your family are not Christains, you skipping church to hang out with them isn’t a great example, is it? You could just ask to move the time of the get-together until after church. Or, better yet, invite them to join you!

And if your exuse is that you might offend someone, what about offending God…? Think on that for a moment, will you?

But what if your family are Christains? Well, then that just makes it a lot easier—go celebrate Jesus’ birth at church together!

Now, that covers you skipping church on Christmas, but what about the church simply being closed?

I’d say that was pretty shameful, personally. We should never neglect gathering together to worship God, no matter what day it is. Like I said, we don’t get the day off of following God. He’s always there, he’s always in charge, and he always wants us to obey and worship him.

Well, that about covers it! I know that since this post comes out on Monday, no one could change what they did yesterday. But I hope it gives you a little something to think about!

And keep in mind, I’m not trying to offend anyone by this. I’m just saying what God put on my heart. So go search after him, and God bless!

~Janet

PS: I know there are some of you that did go to church yesterday. To those, you have shown Jesus that he is that important in your life, and honored his supreme authority. He is always in charge, especially on Christmas. 😀

Living it (Salvation) Out IX

Our fruit today comes with a great reward… but it may be hard for those harder-headed ones to swallow.

MEEKNESS. 

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy,  

peace, longsuffering, gentleness,  

goodness, faith, meekness, temperance:  

against such there is no law.  

Galatians 5:22–23 

I did a quick search on this word, and one of the definitions that popped up was this: forbearance under injuries and provocations.

I think this, along with softness of temper and mildness, describes the word meek quite well. But I like the first one best, and it ties back into what I said at the beginning of this post about there being a great reward…

Remember when Jesus spoke to his disciples and told them that whoever is persecuted for his sake with have a great reward in heaven? In fact, just in the gospel of Matthew, he says three times that if you loose your life for his sake, you will find it again (in heaven, as in eternal life!).

But he has more than just a promise concerning persectution; he actually directly references the reward for being meek specifically in Matthew 5:5–>

Blessed are the meek: for they shall inherit the earth.

That’s a lot to inherit, right? But there’s more…

All throughout the Old and New Testaments, meekness promised many rewards: guidance from God, salvation, satiation of hunger, being lifted up, etc!

But to earn these rewards, we must first have meekness, correct? It is very hard to be meek, I’ll tell ya!

Allow me to put you in a scenario: your younger sibling or friend is sure they’re eight about something. You, having a different view, are equally sure of your correctness.

You want to argue. You can’t let them have the last word, right?

Well, you can. (Unless it’s a life threatening thing and everyone else realizes that this person is wrong, I suppose. But that’s beyond the point 😉 )

You can just let it go, and remain friends! That’s being meek, and some of the time letting the argument go will alert your sibling or friend and maybe make them want to hear your side of the issue! (Remember the Proverb: A soft answer turneth away wrath!)

But it doesn’t matter if that happens or not—Jesus still wants you to be meek and gentle to all people, just like he was. The Bible tells us he was led like a lamb to the slaughter, yet he opened not his mouth (rough quote of Isaiah 53:7).

He is our ultimate example, so what are you waiting for? Go out and practice your meekness, no matter how hard it is, and follow your King!

God bless,

Janet 🌍

Living it (Salvation) Out VIII

Back into our series about the Fruits of the Spirit, we cover today one of the most interesting and confusing ones… 

FAITH. 

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy,  

peace, longsuffering, gentleness,  

goodness, faith, meekness, temperance:  

against such there is no law.  

Galatians 5:22–23 

Faith. This one might be a little hard, but let’s start out with a definition… and what better definition than one from the Bible? 

Hebrews 11:1: 

Now faith is the substance of things hoped for,  

the evidence of things not seen. 

Faith is not wishing for something. Faith is knowing that something you hoped for in the past WILL happen. Faith is believing something or someone (Jesus for example) that you’ve never seen does exist. 

Jesus says many times in the New Testament that people’s faith saved them. Matthew 5:34 is just one example I will give: 

And he said unto her, Daughter, thy faith hath made thee whole; go in peace, and be whole of thy plague. 

He says her faith made her whole! By her trusting that Jesus could heal her, she showed him that she knew he was the Son of God—and he healed her for that belief. 

That can happen to us as well. When we have faith in Jesus and believe he did come to earth and take the punishment for our sin, then we can be healed. 

That’s the foundation fo the Gospel, right there! Faith may be one of the most important fruits of the Spirit! 

So once we have that faith in the beginning, what else happens? We have a list of what to do in 2nd Peter 1:5-8: 

And beside this, giving all diligence,  

add to your faith virtue;  

and to virtue knowledge; 

And to knowledge temperance;  

and to temperance patience;  

and to patience godliness; 

And to godliness brotherly kindness;  

and to brotherly kindness charity. 

For if these things be in you, and abound,  

they make you that ye shall neither be barren  

nor unfruitful in the knowledge of our  

Lord Jesus Christ. 

That’s a long section to read, but I encourage you to do so—it’s so worth it! This is a list of things to add to our faith. Do you recognize any of them….? Some of the But which one comes first over them all? 

Faith. 

I think it’s interesting that in Galatians when Paul is writing, he gives the Fruits of the Spirit with faith as number eight. That’s because the Fruits are only a list of traits we will have when Jesus is in our hearts.

In 2nd Peter, however, Peter’s list is a step-by-step how to grow your faith list. It’s a Become-More-Like-Jesus list. And that’s why faith is listed first.

It’s very important, guys. You must BELIEVE in your hearts that Jesus is the Son of God to be saved. That’s the starting point of EVERYTHING!!! After you have that, anything is possible. Jesus is by your side. He does not wish that any of us should perish (die forever) and he wants everyone to be saved. 

And all it takes is faith like a grain of mustard seed! Matthew 17:20 says: 

And Jesus said unto them,  

Because of your unbelief: for verily I say unto you, 

 If ye have faith as a grain of mustard seed,  

ye shall say unto this mountain, Remove hence to yonder place;  

and it shall remove; and nothing shall be impossible unto you. 

Pretty cool, right? There’s some amazing things in the Bible! 😀 That’s the power of God right there, all in a tiny bit of faith. 

I hope this helped you in some way, and may God bless you all! 

~Janet ✞ 

Living it (Salvation) Out VII 

The Fruit of the Spirit for today is… (drumroll, please! This one is awesome!) 

GOODNESS!!! 

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy,  

peace, longsuffering, gentleness,  

goodness, faith, meekness, temperance:  

against such there is no law.  

Galatians 5:22–23 

Now I said earlier that GOODNESS was awesome, right? Well, it is. But also, it is very hard to understand. 

When I first saw this one on the list, I thought Oh no. How do I talk about this one? What about the verse that says there is no one good? How… 

It took some studying, I’ll say that much! Let’s dive in! 

First off, yes. There are three verses with pretty much the exact same wording (Ps 14:3, Ps 53:3 and Rom 3:12) that all say: There is none that doeth good, no not one. 

So how is this a Fruit of the Spirit? These are things we can do, right? 

Well, yes and no. We do them, but we can’t actually do them. It’s a Fruit of the Spirit, after all! Anything good we do can’t come from us, in reality. It comes from Christ who is in us. The good works we do are either born out of selfishness (and therfore aren’t actually good) or from Christ through the Holy Spirit. 

Some selfish motives might be to catch someone’s eye and gain attention, or maybe to get to heaven. Someone might act good, but we don’t know what their heart is. If they are doing good for a selfish reason, IT ISN’T GOOD. 

There is nothing good except through God, as seen in Mark 10:18: 

And Jesus said unto him, Why callest thou me good? 

there is none good but one, that is, God. 

Only God is good, truly. So how is it that we can have goodness in our hearts? 

Through God. 

If there is true goodness in us, it can’t be from us. It has to come from God! 

Speaking of which… 

I ran a search for the word goodness in the Bible, and in the Old Testament 99% of the results were talking about goodness from God toward the Israelites. There was one verse that stood out to me in Psalms 16:1-3, where Michtam of David writes: 

Preserve me, O God: for in thee do I put my trust. 

O my soul, thou hast said unto the LORD, Thou art my Lord:  

my goodness extendeth not to thee; 

But to the saints that are in the earth, and to the excellent,  

in whom is all my delight. 

Of course, in my search I only saw verse 2 where is says that the person’s goodness does not extend to God. 

I thought what does this mean? So I read the context… and verse three explains it. Michtam is saying that his goodness isn’t toward God, but toward the saints. That goodness he’s talking about is coming from God, and he’s using it to bless the others that follow God. 

Some other verses to help explain are in Psalms, Hosea, Romans and Ephesains, as follows: 

(Ps 107:9) For he satisfieth the longing soul, 

and filleth the hungry soul with goodness. 

I think this is talking about a soul that hungers for Christ and for God. If we really are searching out God and following him, he fills our souls with goodness. 

(Ps 144:2) My goodness, and my fortress; my high tower,  

and my deliverer; my shield, and he in whom I trust;  

who subdueth my people under me. 

God is our goodness!!! So cool. 😀 

(Hos 6:4) O Ephraim, what shall I do unto thee?  

O Judah, what shall I do unto thee?  

for your goodness is as a morning cloud,  

and as the early dew it goeth away. 

This is talking about human goodness… and how fickle it is. Our own goodness doesn’t last! We must have God’s goodness in order to make a real difference. 

(Rom 2:4) Or despisest thou the riches of his goodness  

and forbearance and longsuffering;  

not knowing that the goodness of God  

leadeth thee to repentance? 

This is saying that the goodness of God (again, the only REAL goodness in this world) leads us to repentance! Repentance is that state when we fully recognize that we have been going against God and accept Jesus into our hearts. What brings this about? 

The GOODNESS of GOD. He says in 1st Timothy 2:2-3: 

For this is good and acceptable in the sight of God our Saviour; 

Who will have all men to be saved, and to come unto the knowledge of the truth. 

God wants all of us to believe in him! He loves us so much that he doesn’t want any of us to be separated from him! So therefore, in that love and goodness, he made a way for us to be saved… so we can now say that his goodness leads us to repentance! 

Here’s another verse for you: 

(Rom 15:4) And I myself also am persuaded of you,  

my brethren, that ye also are full of goodness,  

filled with all knowledge, able also to admonish one another. 

This is Paul writing to other followers of Christ. He is persuaded, he says, that they are full goodness. When we are in Christ, he is in us… as well as all his wonderful goodness! 

And one last one that relates directly to the Fruits of the Spirit: 

Eph 5:9 (For the fruit of the Spirit is in all goodness and righteousness and truth;) 

That being that the Fruits of the Spirit are shown in goodness, righteousness and truth. 

… 

So, what have we learned?  

  1. We’ve learned that none of us are good in and of ourselves. 
  1. We know that only GOD is really good. 
  1. We know that God gives us his goodness to bless others and to show our salvation. 
  1. We know that we are only saved through God’s goodness. 
  1. We know that when we are saved, we have God’s goodness in our hearts. 

I sure have learned a lot from studying this, and I sincerely hope you have, too. 😀 

God bless, 

Janet! ❤️  

Living it (Salvation) Out VI 

Gentleness. Ah, this one is hard. 

Oh, wait. They all are… 

Unless you have the right perspective! 

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, 

peace, longsuffering, gentleness, 

goodness, faith, meekness, temperance: 

against such there is no law. 

Galatians 5:22–23 

Gentleness is the sixth of the Fruits of the Spirit, and remember—this means it comes from the Holy Spirit living in you. You may want to give up on being loving, joyful and patient… but if you focus on God and let him work through you with the Holy Spirit, amazing things will happen! 

Let’s look at the definition of gentleness

1. Genteel behavior. 

2. Softness of manners; mildness of temper; sweetness of disposition; meekness. 

The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, long suffering, gentleness goodness, faith. Galatians 5:22 

3. Kindness; benevolence. 

4. Tenderness; mild treatment 

This is from the Websters 1828 dictionary (my personal favorite) and I think it’s quite interesting that Webster references our verse right in the middle of his definition! Back in 1828, they used the Bible a lot more… but that’s beside the point right now. 😂  

The first definition here is genteel behavior. The word genteel is connected to the gentry back in the 1800’s—the lords and ladies. Imagine how they would act, and you’ve got the idea. 

Most of the other points given above are similar to this. This is the action part of what Paul writes about in Galatians. Acting kindly and gently to all. But I think there’s a bit more to it. 

Because as always, there’s more to it than meets the eye. After all, these fruits are from the Spirit, therefore there must be a spiritual side to this. 

Now don’t get me wrong, I’m not talking about ghosts and scary stuff. I’m talking about God, the angels, and the Holy Spirit (I would go more into this, but that’s not where I’m going with this particular post, so I think I’ll leave it there. You can research more on you own if you want, of course!) 

We can act gentle, but what about on the inside? The Elsie Dinsmore series shows this really well. Elsie, the main character, is only nine when we are introduced. But she is so kind and gentle and forgiving that immediately we know that something is different here. 

Elsie had believed in Jesus, and that was what changed her behavior (inside and out). What we need is a gentle spirit, and that will lead to gentle actions. Being willing to see both sides of an argument, being slow to anger and quick to forgiveness, letting others go first… these may seem hard, but with the right attitude and look on life it will take us far. 

A friend told me recently about a saying he’d heard: Gaze at God and glance at life. 

This is soooooo true! If we are focusing on God at all times, everything else falls into place and the seeming difficulty of the Fruits of the Spirit melt away. After all, we aren’t destined for life on earth, this is just a place to get ready for heaven! 

Are you ready to start Gazing at God? Start by reading your bible a lot, and that will help you learn more about him. Praying and talking to him about your troubles is another super important step, and thinking of Him in every action. 

Being willing to do this, and to set your own life on the back burner is one thing that will help with that gentle spirit. You may not want to, but just give it a try. Gaining the right aspect on life will change it forever… for the better! 😀 

God bless, 

Janet! ❤️  

A Tower. A girl. A story.

Writing can be fun. Writing can be hard. Writing, sometimes, can seem impossible. 

Right now, writing seems impossible. I’m working two jobs, get home super late, don’t write well in the morning, and seem to have lost all inspiration. 

But never fear! The thing is just to write, even if it isn’t good writing. So here I submit to your notice a short flash fiction I wrote today, based off the following prompt.

“You said that this place was built to imprison something. What was it?” “Me.”  

FREE 

 
A young girl, maybe 12 or 13 years old, stood on a grassy hill looking out to the horizon. The evening sunlight shone on her bright hair as she smiled gently. 

“I see it all now.” she murmured. A figure on her left nodded slowly. 

“I told you that you would.” 

“Thank you. They told me I could never escape. They told me I would be happy there.” She inclined her head toward a massive tower blocking her view of the mountains beyond. From the hilltop, she could barely see over it. From inside, she’d never known there was anything beyond it. 

“And were you happy?” 

She paused, considering. “No. Not really. I thought I was, but compared to this joy, I realize now it was all fake.” 

Her companion nodded. He’d helped her escape, leading her by the hand out of the inky blackness of the dungeon to the light and freshness of freedom. At first, she had resisted, unsure. But when he’d shown his love for her—when she’d seen how much he wanted to help her—then she’d gladly come. 

“How can I ever thank you?” she asked him, smiling. He stood silently for a long moment, then looked at her. 

“Go, do what I have done. Open the way for others to follow. Tell them I am here, wanting to help them.” 

She nodded willingly. “Of course! Although I’m not sure even that would repay you for what you risked for me.” 

He only smiled. 

That girl was me, three years ago. Now I stand once again on that hilltop, gazing at that terrible tower. Beside me stands a young boy, clutching his thin rags tightly to his body in the chilly breeze. 

“You said that place was built to imprison something. What was it?” 

I smile. “Me. Me—and you.” 

“But we aren’t there,” he protests. Oh, for such a short memory. I still remember the horrors of that evil place. 

“No, we aren’t there anymore, since our guide led us out. Aren’t you glad?” 

He beams up at me, his eyes bright. “Yes. Now what?” 

“Now we do the same for others.” 

Hope you enjoyed it! Put in the comments what you thought it might have been about! 😀 

God bless, 

Janet ❤️